Meeting someone new should be exciting—not risky. CABiT Intelligence Date Safety is a discreet check-in and safety support service designed for anyone going on a date with someone they don’t know well. You share key details in advance, we securely document them, and we follow a clear, pre-arranged plan to help ensure you get home safe.
How it works
Before your date, you can provide:
- Your information (name, phone, vehicle, emergency contact, any medical notes you want included)
- The dater’s information (name, phone number, profile link(s), photos, vehicle details, and any other identifying info you have)
- Meeting details (where you’re meeting, the planned itinerary if you have one, and the time you expect the date to end)
- A “safe word” plan (a pre-arranged code word or phrase that confirms you’re okay—or signals you need help)
We’ll store this information in a structured file so that, if something feels off, you’re not starting from scratch and your safety plan is already in motion.
Post-date check-in (with safe word verification)
At the scheduled end time of your date—or at any time you request—we will contact you with your pre-arranged check-in message and ask for the safe word response. This gives you a private, low-friction way to confirm you’re safe.
If you don’t respond within the agreed window, we follow the escalation plan you set ahead of time (for example: a second contact attempt, contacting your trusted person, or other steps you authorize).
Optional: Location tracking during the date
If you choose, and only with your consent, we can also track your location during the date so that:
- You can share a live location link with us for the scheduled time window, or
- We can monitor location continuity if your plan changes unexpectedly
Location tracking is opt-in, time-limited, and configured around the specific date window you provide.
Your control, your boundaries
This service is built to be simple and discreet. You decide:
- What information to share
- When the check-in happens
- What your safe word is
- Whether location tracking is enabled
- What escalation steps you authorize if we can’t reach you
Important notes
CABiT Intelligence is not a replacement for emergency services. If you believe you are in immediate danger, call 911 right away. Our service is designed to add an extra layer of support, documentation, and accountability, especially for first dates or unfamiliar situations.
Get started
Planning a date and want added peace of mind? Contact CABiT Intelligence to set up your Date Safety file, choose your safe word, and schedule your check-in window.